Rest in your inner beauty. Your inner beauty is consciousness and bliss. This beauty cannot be taken from you. It is your innermost essential nature. You are it. That is the self.
The path to the self is manifold. Eventually all paths lead within.What you seek in the outer world is a reflection of the inner world. You can only find the goal within. The goal cannot be found in another. In fact, the notion that your goal can be found in another is the grand delusion. This grand delusion leads you to search further and further away from your source.
Turn back. Turn within. Stop expending your energies in the outer world looking for the goal. The goal is the self. The parts in the outer world that reflect you are not your total you. Your total you is inside of you. You are it. Reflections in the outer world give you a glimpse of you are, but cannot give you the total you.
You must experience the total you within you, uncoupled from all outer reflections of you.